Hello friends. You know the number one question I get from friends is to help them with talking about sex with their partner or partners. Sex can be a strange thing for some folks. Too many people are not comfortable with their bodies, and well, given how fat the average person is, there is a darn good reason for their insecurity. So before we move on, put down the fork and get in the darn gym America! There is nothing less sexy then not knowing where one body part ends and another begins. Tighten it up folks!

Ok, now that we are clear on that, let’s get down to the business of the day. While making sweet love to your partner there is nothing more important than communication. Every person is different. Just because you last lover liked a finger gently inserted into her ass during intercourse, that doesn’t mean every woman does. So talk to each other, you will be surprised how much you can learn by discussing your love making openly and honestly.

Of course the foundation of that discussion requires some classy but sexy dialogue for the body parts that you will be caressing, pinching, licking and penetrating. I like to refer to Breasts as The Twins, but sometimes Fun Bags or Honkers. When referring to either butt cheeks or the anus, you can just say butt or ass.

Always remember to add a compliment to your question such as; can I spank that beautiful ass of yours? When referring to your penis, remember a phallic naming is something for a bit later in the relationship. If you call your penis the Monster or Stanley, don’t introduce him as such right away. Just say something like, do you want to lick my cock?

Now onto the most complicated area, the vagina. Both men and women have trouble with this one. I am a fan of the classic use of the word pussy. Don’t be afraid to use it, but say it softly and gently. But I hear that some folks don’t like the classics, so might I offer Cooter as something new that could bridge the gap. Its fun to say, and no one will misunderstand what you are referring to.

Regardless of what you call things, just talk about it, go out there have some fun!